First Dates: What To Avoid, If You Would Like Attract Women. - An Excellent Guide To Acquire More Information
Let's talk about the subject of attracting women. I often get queries about how to attract women, or what to do to attract women.
One common concern that men have is how to avoid making those critical errors on the first date that prevents ever getting a second date or developing a sexual relationship (instead of a friendship). I am going to discuss a number of them in this post.
Well, there are several mistakes a man can make. Let me summarize the most typical ones here. The largest mistakes guys make on first dates are:
1) Talking about themselves too much. Trying to be interesting rather than interested.
2) Not asking women questions and not listening enough.
3) Focusing excessively on sex- either overtly or by innuendo.
4) Not employing subtleties enough (What a woman understands)
5) Not developing sexual flow or interest.
6) Not making future. (A relationship is dependent on future.)
The initial mistake that most guys make is that they start the first date and talk everything regarding themselves, kind of strut around telling the girl that he has got this car, and he has got this job and he talks and talks and talks bragging about this and that trying to impress the girl that he is an excellent catch.
What a girl sees is a self-centered ego maniac that isn't going to be able to take care of her at all, because he isn't thinking about her and doesn't listen to what she has to say. Not a good relationship prospect.
Another way of saying it is that guys act as if they are very interesting. They figure they need to be interesting for a girl to be thinking about them. Sorry guys, but it doesn't work that way. You have to be enthusiastic about the girl, not interesting to get her attention. Did you ever see two interesting persons on a date. It is hilarious! They're both so busy trying to be interesting to the other that neither has time to be considering another.
If you don't know what We are talking about, think what makes you feel better. A girl who is serious about you? Or a girl who is letting you know how cool she is, how hot she really is, etc, and all sorts of other interesting things.
Interesting leads to many rejections and "platonic" friendships by the way. Girls can be friends with a guy who is really interesting. Why? Girls love to be amused and entertained. Interesting men are sort of like children to them. A source of non-sexual entertainment and pleasure.
That's all we have room to talk about here, but you can get more data on the other five mistakes at Dating To Relating.
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