Get Back Together With Your Ex As A Result Of Becoming Less Reachable And More Of A Challenge
You used to be a challenge for her. You had a high value and she had been irresistibly drawn to you. Now she's gone and you are saying: "I want my ex back!"
I'm about to make a wild guess here, however could it be that as time went on, you grew to become less and less of a challenge for her? And can it be that right now, you are absolutely no challenge for her? And also that she knows if she wanted to, at any time she could easily get you back again and wrapped around her finger by simply saying the word?
I'm going to be crude here, however as you may already know, to become a challenge once again you have to demonstrate to your ex lover that her sexuality does not have any control over you any longer. Take into account what it's like when you are stalking her with not returned phone calls, voice mails, text messages, and emails. After which consider what it's like when you keep on doing it (as a lot of guys do) even after she's told you to stop. You're suggesting to the woman that you are a low-value guy with no other sexual choices.
She won't respect you again until you reject her power over you. Luckily you are doing that now by not directly interacting with her. The last thing she needs to hear from you now is how much "I want my ex back", so stay away from her.
Be sure to stay 100% strict with your communication cut-off. Don't be "buddies" with her, as that rewards her with the ongoing approval of power over you while giving her a handy reason to stay broken up. (She justifies that she's letting you down easy that way, assuaging virtually any remorse she may feel.)
On the other hand, always keep her locked in with your stuff. In all likelihood a lot of your possessions are at her residence, and vice versa. She could even owe you money as well. She may request a mutual friend of yours to ask you if you would like all of it back.
The ideal answer to this is "No, not yet. The rationale is simply because her holding onto your stuff (and you possessing hers) is still locking you two in and ensuring future communication. You do NOT want to provide her the psychological closure that would come from settling your accounts.
For the next three weeks, you have to fully acknowledge -- and embrace -- the idea that you're an independent man now. Take what transpired with your ex-girlfriend and learn from it. You've got a great chance to revolutionize your life which will eventually allow you to get your exgirlfriend back.
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